FAQs/Policies

Contact me only if you’re a respectful, kind gentleman

  • Screening Process

    To ensure both of our safety, screening is essential. Verification is mandatory before we can meet. How you communicate with me is a crucial part of the screening process. Be respectful, avoid vulgar language, and don't ask explicit or unnecessary questions. Your manners matter.

    Here’s how it works:

    1. Initial Contact: Email me with the date and details of our potential meeting (see Contact section).Your first email is very important. I only answer emails that contain a brief intro, the proposed date and time, and other relevant date details. Feel free to include your screening info in the initial email to streamline the process. I'll get back to you to confirm my availability based on the dates you suggested, and we'll proceed from there.

    2. I’ll need your FULL NAME, AGE, CELL PHONE NUMBER (only for screening; I won’t call or text without your permission), and a LINK to your LinkedIn profile.

    3. Email Verification: The easiest way to verify is by emailing me from your work email.

    4. References: While I rarely use references for screening purposes, I might request them occasionally.

    Your privacy is my top priority. All information will be handled with the utmost care and erased after verification.

  • In NYC :

    For an INCALL, I can arrange a hotel for us. Just add an additional $200 to my rate and please give me at least 24 hours notice. I can't accommodate same-day or last-minute incalls. I'm also happy to arrange a high-end hotel as long as you cover the expenses.

    OUTCALL This is perfect if you're traveling on business or visiting and already have a luxury hotel. Time to invite me! I can also come to your residence if your building has a doorman. If not, we can always arrange for a hotel to meet.

    When on Tour :

    When touring other cities, I usually have an Incall available and can also do Outcalls to luxury hotels and residences nearby, depending on the location.

  • A deposit is required, especially when I book an incall ( covering the hotel myself) or when I'm touring (covering travel expenses). For me, this ensures that my money is not wasted out of my pocket.

    A deposit will be applied to the total when we meet in person. Bring the remaining balance in cash, placed in an envelope.

    You can make a deposit via Cashapp, Venmo, or through discreet methods like prepaid gift cards. I will let you know a few options.

    Deposit Non-Refundable : If you need to cancel, notify me in advance, be nice about it, gift me something off my Wishlist or tip me, and we can apply it to a rescheduled date within the next six months.

    For Tours: The deposit is always non-refundable.

    Deposit details :

    • Incalls in NYC : 500 USD (300 deposit + 200 incall fee)

    • Outcalls : 300 USD deposit

    • Touring : Deposit varies by tour, usually 700 USD, non-refundable. This depends on travel expenses and hotel prices in the visiting city.

  • I don't accept reviews. What happens between us stays private. Absolutely no reviews!

  • I prefer not to be used as a reference.

    If it's absolutely necessary, I can provide one reference within a year of our meeting for a fee of 100 USD per reference.

    Please contact me beforehand to inform me that a provider will be reaching out, and provide her name and website or a link to an ad. If you share my email without asking first, the reference will not be favorable.

    If I agree to a reference, you can be sure it will be a good one.

  • Booking and Availability Guidelines

    The more notice you give me, the better. I’ll be ready and excited to meet you.

    I understand that life doesn’t always work that way. Let’s consider a scenario: you arrive in NYC (or another major US city I'm visiting) on a business trip and see my ad in the morning. It’s fine to contact me and inquire about a date for the evening. If I’m available, I will need screening and a deposit immediately. So, be ready.

    What’s almost never okay is to contact me late at night asking if I’m available now. That’s never going to happen.

    At a minimum, I need 6 hours' notice. Ideally, 24 hours' notice is best.

    If you want to make a great impression, my ideal suitor is a planner who arranges dates, activities, and trips with me in advance.

    Also, please do not ask me, "Where is your incall?" It's a pet peeve of mine. See the Incall vs. Outcall section for an explanation.

  • Filming or recording of me or our time together is strictly prohibited.